Love, Sex & Relationships

The Word "Settling" is Causing People to Miss Out

Hey guys, I know it's been a while. Life gets hectic and so much has transpired in terms of my life and the new direction it's taking. As a driven woman, focused on my life goals, I spent a better part of two years trying to figure myself out, and how to attain everything I… Continue reading The Word "Settling" is Causing People to Miss Out

Love, Sex & Relationships

Two Types of Love; Don’t Let Go of the Magic!

I was talking to this young girl a few weeks ago and she mentioned something about marriage plans and at that point I realized there's two kinds of romantic love. Later that night I saw someone else in a relationship just engulfed in their significant other. It was all in their eyes. The eyes are… Continue reading Two Types of Love; Don’t Let Go of the Magic!

Motherhood, Stories

Have Courage and Be Kind

(WARNING!: Grey's Anatomy current season spoiler alert below) Right now my brain is racing, there's so much I want to share but my thoughts are so scrambled. They go from being coherent and flowing perfectly until I get to the conclusion and then it's chaos again. I finally said enough is enough I need to… Continue reading Have Courage and Be Kind

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Love=Weakness

My husband left today on a business trip. I couldn't get that cotton mouth feeling outta my system, all the way to the airport I had that dreadful feeling. He held me tight and kissed me softly a few times, I couldn't help but cry. He hasn't had a major conference or important reason to… Continue reading Love=Weakness

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5 Men Every Woman Needs

I consider myself a feminist. I believe that women should be equals with the understanding that we can never truly be equals. That sounds like a hypocritical statement but if you think about  the degree to which women are treated unfairly based on the social stigma of being a woman, you will understand we don't… Continue reading 5 Men Every Woman Needs

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The Friend Zone

Word of the Day: this is what I am.When I met my husband 13 years ago, I was 14 years old on the first day of high school. I had a really bad breakup that year, but managed to get into another bad relationship right before school started in the fall.  Most people are like… Continue reading The Friend Zone

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5 Truths to Staying IN Love

When I was a little girl, I couldn't imagine who I would marry but I knew that I wanted to get married. I would envision the wedding, and try to see the man's face in my dreams. I would fantasize about who he would be and how much excitement he would bring into my life.… Continue reading 5 Truths to Staying IN Love

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Wishing for an Eternity Together

Tonight I cried happy tears as I sat beside my husband packing up our things in preparation for our move. This is a new chapter. I'm scared, I'm excited, I'm worried, I'm anxious. It will be our 5 year wedding anniversary in July this year, and the last 5 years have been hard, really hard.… Continue reading Wishing for an Eternity Together